While some women enjoy watching a man grovel, the average girl would much rather receive a sincere and heartfelt apology to a girlfriend over flowers, jewelry, and chocolate ” well maybe not chocolate. The bottom line is that women are emotional creatures and most of our emotions are lived on the surface where men often bury their emotions down deep. If you want your apology to a girlfriend to strike a chord deep within her you need to tap into your emotional side for just a little while.
Learn to respect what she feels and do not take anything about her for granted. Show her how important she is to you. Ignoring something that she said or her feelings towards something is a very grave mistake.
Explain yourself. This may be the most difficult elements of a well crafted apology to a girlfriend. It may also be the most important. No matter who is at fault you must explain yourself in a manner that shoulders the responsibility and explain why you did whatever it is you are apologizing for doing. Explain it in a light the imposes no blame on her or you will put here in a defensive mood rather than a mood that is receptive to your apology.
You must tell her how you are crushed by the things you did and very afflicted by them. Be very careful not to put the blame on her or else she will be crushed, too.
Apologize without reservation. Do not be afraid to show a bit of your vulnerable side. Gifts and any other material thing can’t pull a sorry off if it’s not done with humility and compassion.
Is is appropriate to ask an apology to a girlfriend in a bus, mall, or on a street? Definitely not! Do the apology appropriately,be sensible enough to know when and where is the right to do it.
