If you are still clinging to the idea about getting your ex back, then you should pass the break up tests he will throw at you. Always remember that in any relationship, it should be a partnership not a single man show. Just like in instances where one does all the taking and the other does all the giving, then it is not pleasant at all.
In times when the relationship has ended, the ex who usually does the taking will utilize these tests on break ups to determine if he still has a command over you. In this case it is best that you succeed on this test in order to change the situation and have a better relationship with your ex.
What are these breaking up tests and how do you pass them?
Always There for Me Test
This is when your ex calls up out of the blue to see if you can do something for him or her. Whether it’s coming over to fix a leaky faucet or cooking a favorite meal you prepared in the past or some other trivial matter you do not want to drop what you are doing to be there for your ex.
There are moments when it becomes too serious that it could help you get closer again. But in other situations, you have to let your ex realize that you are no longer his girl/boy but rather his/her ex; for there is a tendency that she/he will get used to it.
Answer Upon the Phone Rings Test
You may be waiting and hoping for the phone to ring and their number to show up on your caller I.D. Whatever you do, do not answer on the first ring. You want to let the phone ring a few times to let your ex know that you have other important things going on in your life. Your ex is an important part of your past but you need to focus on other things in your life first. The first ring test is one that your ex will use as a breaking up test to see how much hold he or she still holds over you.
The Two-Minute Text Turnaround Test
Your enthusiasm to reply to his messages will help your ex determine your eagerness and need to see and please him. This is what exes usually use worldwide. Replying to his message as soon as you receive it or within a few minutes it will create a bad image for you. Let him/her wait this time. Don’t let him/her control you. You won’t look good after all. A relationship should be a hand-in-hand situation – each one for each other. But if this reality is not clear when you are not together, then it will not be good either if ever you get back together.
This break up test is a good way for both of you to realize that you are both individuals, that you have different lives to live other than just living for him or her.
These are both important first steps for both of you when you want to get your ex boyfriend back. Want step by step instructions on passing these and other tests in a relationship? Watch these great videos and put them to work for you: http://www.makeyourexwantyouback.com.
